Starters Kit - Chapter 01
And after you read this, please take a moment and really think about what it means
This is the biggest difference between the guys that are killing it on InstantHookups and the ones that don’t - and it’s why the select few that “run with it” get more messages and hook up requests than all other men combined.
Ok, here goes ... that secret:
IT’S SPEED OF IMPLEMENTATION.
After having helped more than three thousand men get laid with women they meet online I’ve noticed the ones who “get a lot of sex” are the guys that implement new ideas INSTANTLY.
There was no sitting around, debating and lollygagging... there was only instant, massive action.
Some of the text in these profile descriptions may feel uncomfortable, like something you would never write yourself - but it’s what work’s in the real world.
STEP 1: Create Your Profile
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STEP 2 - COPY & PASTE
Below are two [about me] paragraphs that I’ve personally used that have continuously gotten INCREDIBLE RESPONSES from women.
(And I’m confident they’ll get you some naughty pics before the day is over)
About me #01: “I like camping nude, hiking nude and base-jumping nude, just as long as it's not too cold. I also like Labrador puppies, but only if they aren't rabid.
I drive by the gym at least once a day, and put fresh condoms on the nightstand every other night. Sometimes, I go strolling alone along the beach and feed the birds....to the sharks.
A lot of women have told me I look like Brad Pitt....in the dark. Others have said I'm a hunk, but a hunk of what?”
About me #02: “REAL WOMEN RATE JOSH 4 OUT OF 5 STARS”
Martha says: "Instead of a typical fbuddy, Josh will ask you many questions, genuinely show interest in your and then flirt with other women right in front of you! His biggest flaw is that he takes word “asshole“ as a compliment."
Eva says: "..He is actually really fun and interesting guy, so if you are lucky enough to make him like you, you will get a great sexbuddy that’s not afraid to completely dominate you from time to time."
Nicole says: "I'm not writing you a dating review, are you crazy?!"
Kay says: "It's the first time I talk to someone so arrogant as you and since your first approach I know we would never get along." followed by "I'm on a date downtown, I'll probably ditch him and meet you instead. Where are u at?"
I told you, definitely not something you would find on Match.
These profiles are built to spark sexual attraction, curiosity and desire. You don’t yet need to understand why they work. I’ll explain everything in tomorrow’s e-mail. (hint: It’s the only thing that’s GUARANTEED to make her attracted to you)
Here’s the text you should use for your “My Match” section.
About her: “I'm looking for somebody that is breathing, and preferably not in any type of relationship, such as marriage, a cult, or prison. A woman that has a steady head on her shoulders, and is confident enough to take charge in the bedroom.
She MUST know how to bathe, and does it regularly....with or without my assistance. She cannot be a blood relative (note to self: always check this first, not last). And must be of legal age...in \[YOUR STATE\], NOT Missouri.“
This part of the profile CRUSHES it. It gives women a challenge they can live up to while leaving an EASY OPENING to contact you.
People often ask me if they should also fill in their other text sections on the site.
My answer to that is yes and no. There’s a fine line between showing that you’re committed and not taking it too seriously (as you’ll discover later this week)
STEP 3 - ADD A PROFILE PIC
Think about this for a moment.
You would never message a woman without seeing her profile pic. You’d wanna to know if she’s “worth the trouble”.
Women are no different.
And while they’re not attracted by looks like men, they want to (read: need to) make sure you’re a “reliable candidate” instead of somebody who could end up getting them killed.
Avoid any photo that does not clearly show your face.
We want to communicate trust.
Facial expressions are one of the most important sub-communicators. And women pick up on them like “that”.
I’ve got some jedi-photo tricks in store for you at a later time. (You’ll be shocked when you find out what REALLY turns women on in your photos).
Keep it simple.
Don’t worry about looking cool. Your profile (text) will do that for you.
Keep in mind that your profile photo appears miniaturized on various search results on the site.
A clear picture of your ugly mug with decent lighting is 10x better than any photo with your shirt off doing acrobatics or petting a tiger.
And that’s it. (for now)
Before I let you go, a final word of advice.
The only way to “get good” at something is to learn by doing.
Taking action on what you just learned is the closest thing there is to rewiring your brain.
It’s process scientists call myelination and it will help you understand the things we’re going to talk about tomorrow, much-much better.
Unfortunately, some people will always choose the “safe route”. They’ll wait for the latest new trick or “just a bit more information”.
Most likely those people will stay where they are.
“If you do what you’ve always done, you will get what you’ve always gotten.”
Don’t know who said that. But I’m sure it was somebody smarter than me.
Now go out there and have a little fun with everything you just learned.
Tomorrow’s another day on the classroom bench,
~ The Dating Dude